Even Boys Do Cry: The Crucial Role of Community in Preventing Violence Against Boys

“Boys need adult care and protection too. Boys can be victims of sexual violence, and being a real man means being kind to yourself and others.” This powerful message was emphasised during a community dialogue held in Haripur Union Parishad, marking Blue Umbrella Day on April 16. The day aims to raise awareness about the sexual violence affecting boys and the importance of their protection.

Every year, Blue Umbrella Day sheds light on the need for better care for boys, underlining that sexual violence against them can have far-reaching effects on society. The theme for this year, “Sexual violence affects boys too,” underscores that the issue is not gender-exclusive and requires immediate and concerted action from all sectors of the community.

Statistics show that boys, often overlooked in discussions about sexual violence and reproductive health, are equally vulnerable. This year’s Blue Umbrella Day dialogue, organised by the Association for Community Development (ACD) in collaboration with Family for Every Child, brought together public representatives, development activists, and educators to discuss strategies to create a safer environment for boys. The event highlighted the essential role that community efforts play in safeguarding boys’ physical and mental well-being.

Bazley Rizvi Al Hassan, Chairman of the Union Parishad, along with other key speakers, stressed the need for integrated efforts from both government and non-government organisations to combat violence against boys. They noted that community engagement is crucial in addressing sexual health and reproductive rights (SRHR) issues, which are vital components of the Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs).

“Sexual violence against boys is a critical issue that affects their development and future prospects,” said Subrata Kumar Paul, ACD Project Coordinator, who moderated the discussion. “By raising awareness and fostering a supportive environment, we can ensure that boys receive the care and protection they need.”

The dialogue underscored the importance of adult involvement in safeguarding boys from all forms of violence and repression. Akhtarul Islam, a school teacher, pointed out that creating an atmosphere where boys feel safe and supported is crucial for their growth into responsible and emotionally healthy adults. The discussants emphasized that protecting boys from sexual abuse is not just about preventing immediate harm but also about promoting their long-term development and well-being.

Efforts to address sexual violence against boys align with broader SRHR goals, which advocate for the right to health, bodily autonomy, and protection from harm for all individuals. These efforts are integral to achieving the SDGs, particularly those related to health, education, and gender equality.

Kazi Nazmul Islam, President of Paba Press Club, highlighted the significant role that media and public awareness plays in combating sexual violence. “By openly discussing these issues and providing resources for victims, we can help break the cycle of silence and stigma that often surrounds sexual violence against boys,” he said.

The dialogue concluded with a call to action for all community members to actively participate in protecting boys from violence and sexual abuse. The speakers unanimously agreed that only through collective efforts can boys be nurtured into confident and capable individuals, ready to contribute positively to society.

In a world where boys are often expected to be resilient and strong, it is crucial to acknowledge their vulnerabilities and provide them with the necessary support and protection. By doing so, we not only safeguard their future but also promote a healthier, more equitable society for all. As Blue Umbrella Day reminds us, sexual violence affects boys too, and it is our collective responsibility to ensure their safety and well-being.

Source: BSS News
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