We Are Not There Yet: Why Do We Judge Too Harsh, Specially When It’s A Girl?

A recent incident has drawn my attention to the urgent need for proper sexual and reproductive health education (SRHR) in Bangladesh. An 11-year-old girl left home with her so-called lover—an act not of informed choice but rather a reflection of her evolving mental and emotional state, influenced by hormonal changes. This unfortunate event highlights the consequences of inadequate education on SRHR and the absence of proper guidance for adolescents as they navigate this crucial stage of their development.

In our society, we are witnessing an alarming rise in juvenile crime, gender-based violence, sexual harassment, and exploitation. A common thread among these issues is the lack of comprehensive SRHR education that informs adolescents about their bodies, emotions, and relationships in a safe and age-appropriate manner. Access to psychosocial and sexual counselling to guide young individuals through their mental and emotional challenges. Youth-friendly services that provide a safe space for adolescents to seek advice and support without fear of stigma or judgement.

Unfortunately, instead of addressing these systemic gaps, many in society are quick to criticise or blame children for their actions without acknowledging the deeper structural and educational shortcomings that lead to such incidents.

It is high time to create an enabling environment where adolescents have access to comprehensive, inclusive, and sex-positive SRHR education that is culturally sensitive and age-appropriate. Safe spaces for discussion and counselling to address their psychosocial and sexual health concerns. Supportive policies and community engagement to ensure every adolescent receives the education and care they need to thrive.

If we fail to take urgent action, we will continue to witness more cases like that of the 11-year-old girl—children making life-altering decisions without proper guidance, leading to cycles of exploitation, mental distress, and lost potential.

Let’s stand together and advocate for transformative, rights-based SRHR education that safeguards the well-being of adolescents and ensures they grow into empowered, informed, and responsible individuals. The time to act is now!

This write-up is a kind contribution from our CoP member:

Syed Md. Nuruddin
Advisor-Sexual and Reproductive Health & Rights,
Plan International Bangladesh

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